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One of the biggest lessons I learned while driving 7,255 miles across the United States—and from previous adventures, including a 3,121-mile road trip and many road trips across Europe—is that traveling cheaply is not only about finding inexpensive food and saving money on gas. After thousands of miles behind the wheel, I have learned that you also have to think about something much simpler: Where am I going to stop when I get tired?
That question becomes especially important on long-distance trips. You may have planned your route, calculated your fuel costs, and packed food to save money, but eventually you need a safe and practical place to pull over, rest, and sometimes spend the night.
When you are driving across several states, especially through rural parts of America, that question can become surprisingly important.
Sometimes I only needed a restroom and ten minutes to stretch my legs. Other times I needed a longer break. And when you are traveling on a tight budget and sleeping in your vehicle or camping along the way, finding an appropriate place to stop for the night becomes part of the adventure.
Rest Areas: The Simplest Road-Trip Stop
Rest areas are probably the easiest places to use during a long highway journey. They are not glamorous, but after several hours of driving, a clean restroom, a picnic table, and a safe place to get out of the car can feel wonderful.
Although rest areas sometimes have a questionable reputation, many of them are changing. Across the country, I have noticed rest areas becoming more modern, cleaner, more attractive, and even educational. Some have large maps showing the state and surrounding highways, displays about local history, state-related artifacts, visitor information, and landscaped grounds that make the stop feel more like a small welcome center than simply a place to use the restroom.
I have been to rest areas in places such as Montana where the facilities really surprised me. Instead of the typical row of restroom stalls, some locations have individual private rooms with all the necessary facilities inside. It gives travelers privacy, space, and dignity, and I think that shows a great deal of respect for the different needs of people using the highway.
That is something we sometimes forget about rest areas. They are practical places, but when they are thoughtfully designed and properly maintained, they can also make travelers feel safe, comfortable, and welcome. For someone spending many hours—or even days—on the road, that can make a surprisingly big difference.
I often use them to stretch, eat something I have brought with me, drink a cup of tea or simply sit for a while before continuing.
The important thing is to find the rest area before you desperately need it.
That was actually one of the reasons I created Rest Area Finder USA. During long-distance trips, I often found myself wondering where the next rest area was and how far I would have to drive to reach it.
Rest Area Finder USA lets travelers search for rest areas, welcome centers, and service plazas by interstate, by state, or using the “Near Me” feature based on their current location. This is particularly useful when you are traveling somewhere unfamiliar and simply want to know what is nearby without having to search through maps.
But I also wanted the site to do more than just help you find a place to stop. Once you find a rest area, the “Make This Stop Worthwhile” section can help you explore what is nearby, including attractions, parks and trails, food, and historic places. You can also get directions directly from the site.
Sometimes a rest stop is simply a bathroom break. Other times, it can lead you to a park, a trail, a local restaurant, or an interesting place you might otherwise have driven right past.
Rest Area Finder USA: restareafinderusa.com
One important thing to remember is that rules are not the same everywhere. States have different regulations concerning parking, time limits and overnight use. A rest area that allows you to stop for several hours is not necessarily a campground. Always check posted signs and the rules for the state you are traveling through.
National Forests and Forest Pullouts
This is where road travel can become much more interesting.
On some of my trips, particularly when traveling through areas surrounded by national forests and public land, I have found places away from the busy highway where I could stop and enjoy the surroundings.
You may come across forest roads, designated dispersed-camping areas, trailheads and pullouts. Some can provide an incredible experience compared with spending another night beside a busy interstate.
Imagine waking up surrounded by trees instead of waking up beside traffic. I have woken up, stepped outside to brush my teeth, and found myself watching sheep grazing quietly in the distance while a gentle morning breeze moved through the landscape. Other mornings, I have watched the sunrise slowly fill the sky with incredible colors, sometimes surrounded by mountains with nothing but birds chirping nearby.
Then there are those little surprises—a rabbit appearing near the campsite or a deer quietly walking through the trees. For a few minutes, you forget about the miles ahead, the highway, and everything else. You simply stand there and take it all in.
These are moments you cannot buy anywhere. There is no expensive hotel room that can recreate the feeling of opening your eyes to mountains, wildlife, fresh air, and a sunrise that seems to belong only to you. For me, this is one of the greatest rewards of traveling this way.
But there is an important distinction: a pullout is not automatically a legal camping spot. In many national forests and other public lands, maps and posted notices identify areas where dispersed camping is permitted or where overnight stays are prohibited. It is always worth checking the rules for the particular area before settling in for the night.
That said, traveling in remote areas does not always feel as clear-cut as the rules make it sound. I have come across forest pullouts with no signs, no campground host, no gate, and nobody around to ask. Sometimes I have arrived to find other travelers already pulled over and apparently doing exactly the same thing. In places like these, you may feel as though you are completely on your own.
I have spent nights in situations like this, but I never assume that an empty pullout means camping is automatically allowed. When there are designated dispersed-camping areas, marked sites, or information on an official forest map, those are always the better choice. And if a sign says No Camping, No Overnight Parking, or indicates that an area is closed, I move on.
Part of traveling this way is enjoying the freedom while also respecting the land and the rules that protect it. When you find a legal, quiet place in the forest, though, it can become one of the most memorable—and least expensive—nights of the entire trip.
Rules vary according to the national forest, district, and specific location. Some areas allow dispersed camping, while others prohibit overnight stays or restrict where vehicles can be parked. I always believe in checking the signs and current regulations rather than assuming that an empty piece of land means you can sleep there.
On several occasions, I have actually stopped and asked rangers about primitive or dispersed camping. In some of the places I was visiting, they explained that camping was generally allowed in the surrounding national forest or public-land areas unless a particular location was posted otherwise. That was reassuring, but I also learned that this does not mean the same rule applies everywhere. Local restrictions, fire conditions, seasonal closures, wildlife concerns, and other regulations can change what is permitted.
When it is legal, though, dispersed camping can be one of the best tools available to a budget road traveler. You may spend absolutely nothing for the night and wake up somewhere more beautiful than many paid campgrounds. For me, that combination of freedom, simplicity, and being close to nature is one of the things that makes road travel so rewarding.
Walmart and Other Overnight Parking Options
Walmart has long been associated with road travelers, RVers and people crossing the country by vehicle.
But don't make the mistake of assuming that every Walmart allows overnight parking.
Policies can vary by store because of local ordinances, property restrictions and individual store policies. If I am considering staying somewhere, I would rather ask the store than discover at midnight that overnight parking is prohibited.
The same principle applies to other businesses and travel centers. Look for posted signs and ask permission when appropriate.
A free parking space isn't worth an uncomfortable night worrying about whether somebody is going to knock on your window.
Welcome Centers and Travel Plazas
Welcome centers are another resource I think travelers sometimes overlook.
When you cross into a new state, stopping at the welcome center can give you more than a restroom break. You may find maps, tourism information and ideas for places you didn't even know existed.
Travel plazas and truck stops can also be useful on long drives. Fuel, food, restrooms and people coming and going at all hours can make them convenient places to take a break.
Again, taking a break and staying overnight are two different things, so check the rules before settling in for a long stay.
Europe Does Rest Stops Differently
Having driven extensively in Europe as well, I have always found the difference interesting.
On major European motorways, rest stops are often treated as a normal part of the journey. In countries such as France, Germany, Italy and Spain, you may encounter everything from simple parking and picnic areas to large service areas with fuel, restaurants, coffee shops and stores.
I particularly enjoy this part of European road travel.
You stop, have an espresso or a sandwich, watch travelers from several different countries passing through, and then continue your journey. The stop itself becomes part of the travel experience.
One difference I have noticed while traveling in Europe is that Europeans seem to embrace the idea of the roadside picnic more than we do in America. In France especially, I have come across rest areas with plenty of space to sit outside, unpack some food, relax, and enjoy a proper break before getting back on the road.
I still laugh about one particular stop in France near the Spanish border. At the picnic table next to ours, a Spanish family had taken the idea of a roadside picnic to an entirely different level. They were actually sitting there cutting fresh potatoes so they could deep-fry them and make their own French fries!
I had to look twice because I could not believe what I was seeing. This wasn't a sandwich pulled out of a cooler or a bag of chips for the road. They were preparing fresh French fries right there at a highway rest area. They had clearly decided that if they were going to stop for lunch, they were going to do it properly.
When I drove away, I was still laughing about it. Even today, whenever I remember that family carefully cutting those potatoes beside the highway, it makes me smile and joke about how seriously Europeans can take a roadside picnic.
And perhaps that is part of the charm of road travel. You remember the famous attractions and beautiful scenery, but sometimes it is a family making French fries at a picnic table somewhere near the French-Spanish border that stays in your memory for years.
Interestingly, I have noticed almost the opposite trend at some newer American rest areas. Older rest areas often have several picnic tables scattered around the property, sometimes under trees or away from the parking lot, while some of the newer facilities seem to have fewer places designed specifically for picnicking.
France has taken the idea of taking a proper driving break even further. I have stopped at rest areas with areas where you can walk, run, stretch, and even use simple obstacle-course-style exercise equipment. After sitting behind the wheel for several hours, being able to move your body for ten or fifteen minutes feels fantastic.
It is a different way of thinking about a rest stop. Instead of seeing it simply as a place to use the restroom and leave, it becomes a place to eat, stretch, walk around, watch the world go by, and reset yourself before the next stretch of highway. Sometimes those little stops become part of what you remember about the journey.
America has some excellent rest areas and welcome centers too, but the experience varies considerably from state to state. That inconsistency is another reason I wanted an easier way of finding what was ahead.
Don't Wait Until You're Exhausted
Another option I have discovered while traveling is the network of access roads and trail access points found throughout many national forests. You will often see signs marking these roads from the main highway, and some lead surprisingly deep into the forest. Many are used by hikers and campers who park their vehicles and continue on foot into the backcountry.
I have also seen travelers simply spend the night in their vehicles at appropriate locations along these routes, and I have done it myself. Some of these places can be wonderfully quiet and remote, but you have to pay attention to posted regulations and road conditions. A forest road that looks perfectly manageable at the entrance can become rough very quickly, and some are much better suited to vehicles with higher clearance or all-wheel drive.
I have experienced similar areas near Las Vegas, where people drive out to trailheads and remote recreation areas, park, hike, and enjoy the surrounding landscape. Places like these have taught me that some of the most memorable stops on a road trip are found by leaving the interstate and exploring public lands—but you still need to know where overnight parking or dispersed camping is actually permitted.
Truck stops can provide another option on long drives. I have used places such as Love’s Travel Stops when I needed a safe break from the highway, and some travelers also use certain Cracker Barrel locations for overnight vehicle parking. However, I never assume that overnight parking is permitted simply because other vehicles are doing it. Policies can vary by individual property and local regulations, so I believe in asking the location or checking posted signs before settling in for the night.
That is really the philosophy behind the way I travel: find simple places, respect the rules and the people around you, leave the area as you found it, and continue the journey the next morning.
Another option I have found is the designated camping areas located near many major National Parks. Some have restrooms, water, picnic tables, and other basic facilities, and a number of sites are available on a first-come, first-served basis. The problem is that these places can fill up very quickly, especially during the summer and around major holidays. The same can happen with first-come, first-served campsites inside the National Parks, so arriving late in the day can sometimes leave you searching for another option.
I learned this firsthand during the Fourth of July week while heading toward Mount Rushmore. On that particular trip, it seemed as though every hotel I checked along my stretch of I-90 was completely full. After driving from place to place and finding no vacancies, I finally asked at a hotel if I could simply park in their parking lot and sleep in my vehicle for the night. They allowed me to do it.
That experience taught me something important about road travel: sometimes it is worth simply asking. A hotel that cannot give you a room may occasionally be willing to let a tired traveler remain in its parking lot for the night, but I would never assume that permission is automatic. I always ask first and respect whatever answer they give me.
It is also a good reminder that traveling near famous national parks during peak season requires a backup plan. Campgrounds fill, hotels sell out, and the place you expected to stay may not be available. Knowing about nearby campgrounds, public lands, rest areas, and other legal overnight options before you arrive can turn a stressful situation into just another part of the adventure.
This may be the most important lesson.
Don't wait until you are exhausted to start looking for somewhere to stop.
If you know you will be driving another 100 miles, start thinking ahead. Find the next rest area. Look at your fuel. Think about where you might stop for food. And if you are planning to sleep in your vehicle or camp, figure out your legal overnight location while you are still alert.
That little bit of planning can completely change the experience.
My own long road trips have taught me that traveling cheaply doesn't necessarily mean giving something up. Sometimes it means carrying your own food, making your own tea, sleeping in your vehicle when appropriate, camping on public land where it is permitted and using the resources already available along America's highways.
And sometimes one of the nicest moments of a long journey is incredibly simple: pulling over somewhere safe, opening the car door, stretching your legs and realizing that you don't have anywhere you need to be for the next few minutes. That's part of road travel too.
Driver Fatigue: Stop Fighting the Journey
One thing I have learned from long-distance driving is that sometimes our own mindset makes the journey more tiring than it needs to be. When we are driving hundreds of miles to reach an attraction, a national park, a hotel, or another destination, it can become a battle in our minds: I just need to get there.
Without realizing it, we start putting pressure on ourselves. Every stop feels like lost time. We watch the miles, watch the clock, and keep thinking about how much farther we have to go. That intensity can make an already long drive feel even more exhausting.
I have learned to approach it differently. When I start feeling tired, I stop. Instead of thinking of that stop as an inconvenience, I try to relax my mind and look around. Maybe there is a beautiful view, a short trail, an interesting historical place, somewhere to have a cup of tea, or simply a quiet place to sit for a while. Taking my attention away from the pressure of reaching the destination gives both my mind and body a chance to reset.
The destination isn't going anywhere. I will still get there. But I can arrive with less stress and less fatigue, and something else happens along the way—the journey itself becomes part of the experience. Getting there is no longer something I have to endure before the vacation begins. Getting there becomes part of the vacation. Just the the planning part.
The same idea applies when I fly. Airports, connections, long layovers, delayed flights, and unexpected changes can easily become frustrating when the only thing on my mind is reaching the destination. Sometimes accepting the delay, slowing down, walking around the airport, having something to eat, or simply watching the world go by changes the experience completely.
Whether I am driving or flying, I have learned that not every interruption to the journey is wasted time. Sometimes slowing down is exactly what makes the whole trip more enjoyable.
And when driving, there is an even more important reason to listen to your body: if you are becoming drowsy, don't try to fight through it just to reach your destination. Find a safe place to stop and rest. No attraction, hotel reservation, or schedule is worth pushing yourself when you are too tired to drive safely.
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